The main difference between these two visits was at the church leaders house i was never asked how i was or how the work was going, it was strange ( i didn't go around to talk about me, but still!!), while at the Harold Hill house they are asking about the kids, work etc.
Phil 2v4, this week i found more of this in a house where people don't yet know jesus than i did in a study which was used to prepare sermons.
"jesus forgive me when i've been so rapped up in rich shorter not to notice the human being(s) and their need in the room with me."